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“The Culture” on Trial: Rape in Modern Society

“The Culture” on Trial: Rape in Modern Society By: Ethan Brisby  @ethanbrisby 
November 13, 2017
I have a friend. She visits me at my house. Every time, she come up with a reason for us to make it my bedroom. Eventually, we get to touching and feeling. But she always says, “no” just before I am about to put it in. This has happened multiple times, and each time I stop, because that’s what she ask me to do.
This is not the case many times for young men and women. Especially when you have two bare naked bodies next to each other. The perception is that each person is prepared to consent to sexual intercourse. Here’s some background for you; I have and continue to practice abstinence for multiple extended periods of time. My longest stent being six years prior to my most recent relationship. But when a woman I am secure with insinuates she want the D, I do not mind obliging.
It just seems my friend can’t …
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The Balancing Act of Life: A few words of remembrance about my friend Brandon (1983-2016)

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When I woke up yesterday, everything felt good. I even managed to convince a friend to cook me breakfast. I drove over to her house and as we finished, she started telling me about the type of home she wanted built. Eventually, I found myself driving around Wellborn, Texas looking for lots that are at least half an acre in size. It was during this time, I got a call that threw the rest of my day into a tailspin.
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